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10 SHORT TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE YOU BETTER (PART 1)

You were born an original, don’t die a copy….. John Mason

There is only one YOU in the whole world and it don’t matter if you are a twin.

Many of us live our lives trying to act, live and be like someone else hereby missing out on experiencing the incredible wonder that we are. Nobody can know you like you know yourself and no human can love you more than you love yourself.

Loving yourself is not conceit or being egoist, it’s the ultimate prerequisite to be able to GIVE and RECEIVE love. You can’t give what you don’t have.

When you spend your life looking for love from others, hoping love would find you, yearning for some special love. You end up feeling sad and empty because life doesn’t work that way.

The more you love you, the more love you have to share to others and the more love you receive from others.

I appreciate the fact that LOVING ONESELF completely is not as easy as it sounds. So, in the next part of this series, I have outlined steps that could help you.

I call them the 10 SHORT TIPS ON HOW TO LOVE YOU BETTER

Continues in the next post




Oma Nnabuihe
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