Life through my eyes

I was inspired to write this post after a recent occurrence that had me and my girlfriends literally bullied off a queue by young men. While I recognize that  Chivalry  is as good as DEAD in this generation, I've met a good share of courteous men in my lifetime. Ladies, have you ever had a man walk through a door ahead of you and lets it slam close behind him RIGHT IN YOUR FACE?  Or a bunch of guys walking beside you for minutes while you obviously struggle with a heavy box or bag you are carrying? I'm sure 90 percent of you will say yes. Don't get me wrong .I'm not saying women are weak and always need help from men. All I'm asking is a little politeness from the male-folk. There's a myth that "Nice Guys don't get the girl". That's ridiculous cause They MARRY the girl. Being Courteous is not only attractive to women, its a great way to show support. The little things matter most to women; ...

Cheating can happen in any relationship, no matter how perfect it seems from the outside . It could rock or ruin a relationship. It is absolutely possible to get over infidelity with honesty and communication and the key to moving on is for both partners to be committed to doing so. Why do people cheat? People have individual and personal reasons for cheating on each other . We cannot conclude that everyone who cheats has a wandering eye as there are usually deeply rooted psychological reasons at work. As humans, our needs differ and at different levels. Infidelity happens when a need at a deeper level is not being met within the relationship. This doesn’t mean that it’s your fault if you’ve been cheated on. And it doesn’t always mean that it’s your errant partner’s fault either, just that the relationship isn’t filling both of your needs at that moment. It’s not as simple as you doing or not doing A, B, C and the result being he/she cheated. Maybe it’s somethin...

In everything , treat others as you would want them to treat you, for this fulfills the law and the prophets.  Matthew 7 verse 12 Oma Nnabuihe

Love is beautiful and getting married is like a dream come through for many young people but recent studies have shown that over 30 percent of marriages would end in a divorce within the first five years. These divorces and regrets that accompany it can be avoided if people can ask themselves a few questions and answer honestly before they say I DO. If you are in a relationship that could lead to marriage, the list is inexhaustible  but here are more of those questions that could help you decide for real.  40 Questions You Must Answer Honestly Before You Say I DO (PART 2) If you missed Part 1 check it out  HERE 11.  Does he/she borrow money from you? Why? 12.  Does she/he always keep their commitments and promises? 13.  Does he /she help with chores ? Why or why not? In your relationship, who does most of the housework and why? 14.  Does this person seem  over-anxious  to get married? 15.  Is she/he always...

Its a New Year and many of us have made Resolutions to lose weight this year. We've tried diets and exercise but they fat doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Here are 10 reasons why you're just not losing that weight 1.You Skip Breakfast:  Skipping breakfast may seem like a great way to save calories, but your body will actually hold onto fat because it thinks it's being starved. Research shows that   people who eat breakfast regularly lose more weight , So make sure to eat breakfast each morning to jump-start your metabolism. Don't just grab anything; include protein to give yourself sustainable energy and  fibre  to fill you up for hours. 2.You drink too many sweet and sugary drinks and not enough water:   You watch what you eat, cut back on fatty foods and don’t snack between meals, but you drink large amounts of  alcohol, fruit juice, smoothies,  and soft drinks.  Have you considered the amount of calories you may be drinking every day...

It is through faith that all of you are God's Children in union with Christ Jesus.  You were optimized into union with Christ and now you are clothed, so to speak with the life of Christ himself . So there is no difference between Jews and Gentiles, between slaves and free people, between en and women; you are all one in union with Christ.   Galatians 3 verse 26-28 youversion.com Oma Nnabuihe

Love is beautiful and getting married is like a dream come through for many young people but recent studies have shown that over 30 percent of marriages would end in a divorce within the first five years. These divorces and regrets that accompany it can be avoided if people can ask themselves a few questions and answer honestly before they say I DO. If you are in a relationship that could lead to marriage, the list is inexhaustible  but here are a few of those questions hat could help you decide for real. 1.  Does he /she still live at home ? Why? 2. Where does he/she work ? Is it a dead end job they are pleased with or always complaining about? 3. Have you checked out the family?Are there many red flags in the family you are ignoring? 4.  How many past   relationships has this person had and why did they end? When listening to his/her explanation, remember there are always two sides to every story . 5. What are his/her goals for the...